Thoughts on: Jesus Was Wrong?

James shared that this passage disturbed him as he prepared for the message this week. He was raised, as were so many, thinking that Jesus was perfect and this passage counters that. He shared that people wanted to argue about this passage after the early service based on how he shared it. He invited us to stretch ourselves and see what He would have us learn through this passage, through what some could say was Jesus’ mistake. We all make mistakes and it is how we deal with them afterwards that defines us.

He shared that he was initially against using a clip from Mean girls, but in the end, he decided that it was perfect. The main character, Katie, made a huge mistake and is left to deal with the consequences. When most people are tempted to run from their mistake or make excuses for it, “Katie” was willing to face it and rectify it to the best of her ability. Thanks Hannah (James’ daughter) for the recommendation and for being insistent (daughter’s do know best).

What would the world look like if we did something about our mistakes? If we took the responsibility and made them right? James asks this question and I think we have an example in Jesus. It’s okay to admit we were wrong and to make it right. In fact, it is better than alright.

In this passage, it is still early on in his ministry, Jesus’s focus is on the Jewish people who were anticipating a Messiah. We see through the rest of the Gospels and New Testament that Jesus came to make salvation possible for ALL, but that is not his response in this passage. He couldn’t be bothered by this woman who was not of Jewish decent…if it wasn’t for what we see in the rest of the Bible, where would that leave us??? According to this story we are all dogs. The thing is, this woman who is likened to a dog in this story, is the only one to recognize him for who he is and she calls him “Lord.”

He heals her daughter and we can take this lesson to heart. We don’t know why Jesus couldn’t be bothered by her and we don’t know why he didn’t actually go see her, we can only speculate that. What he does do is clear: he never again turns down a gentile. This unnamed woman may have played a role in stretching the Son of God’s understanding of His message. What a thought. Can you imagine?

James then talked about how people can be scared to accept that they are wrong and I have also seen how scared they are to risk telling another that they are wrong. Why are we all so afraid to correct another in love. After all, that is love and we learn to be better through that love. We should take a cue from that woman and not be afraid to call it like it is. We should take a cue from Jesus and accept correction and examine ourselves, acting accordingly.

We can all argue if we choose, but isn’t it far better not to?  There are so many other ways to be enlightened and to enlightened others as we are called.  It takes wisdom to be able to accept that sometimes, even if we think others are wrong, not saying anything or accepting them where they are at and moving on with them, can be an incredibly powerful statement.  It can be so hard to this, but it is so true that the spirit can work far better than we can.

Wow, thank you God for giving James the eyes and heart to examine and share this passage.  Thank you Jesus for being a savior who we can relate to and for showing us the way (in so many ways).

Saint James-Kingstowne

Folks have asked about the journey that brought us to the place where we are, a place where we become a community of two places. How did we get here? If I say because of God that is way too simple even if it is true. So I thought I’d say a bit more about it.

For years we have wondered about our location at Saint James-Alexandria, wondered that it is at the end of a cul-de-sac, that the building doesn’t always provide us with the tools we need to share the good news in our context with this community and others. We talked about selling and moving which ended up not working out- it was worth exploring but not what God wanted for us evidently, at least not then. Still we (I) had a yearning to go beyond where we are and reach for people who are wanting an experience of the Jesus who accepts us and loves us right where we are, a place where people are free to be who they are, to be authentic (authenticity is one of our core values). We feel we are unique in what we offer at Saint James (every church community is unique in its own ways as well); we feel our uniqueness is attractive to people who might otherwise find church not for them.

How do we get out there? Maybe, I began to think as I prayed, God’s was calling us out but not to move from the Saint James-Alexandria site but to multiply the people we were reaching by multiplying the locations in which we offered the message. I began to feel so strongly that I put it before the leadership team and they were drawn to it as well. That is the abbreviated version of how we got here. Since we were drawn in that direction, God has seemed to confirm the vision in other ways, ways that I will write about in the near future here in the SJ blog.

Jesus and the gentile woman

Yes, the scripture says Syrophoenician woman but essentially I think the point is that she is a gentile, not the Jew that Jesus had come to pursue first in his work. It’s an interesting story in the aftermath of the story just before. Jesus disciples didn’t wash their hands before dinner and that ticked some folks off because they were eating with unclean hands and uncleanness was a bad thing. Jesus said that we needed to get over judging based on the outside stuff making people unclean, it was the inside stuff. Now he has a chance to out that into action and the outside of this gentile woman just doesn’t cut it. (Maybe gentile-ness goes deeper?) This woman seeks out Jesus for healing her daughter with an unclean spirit; Jesus says essentially that she’s not on the list of folks to get healing so “no.” Anyone with children is hardly surprised that the woman will not take no for an answer. I can remember my own mother (and father) standing up for me over the years.  I’ve done it myself as has Linda for our kids. A parent simply does not back down so easily. Not only that but she makes a good argument and Jesus backs down. Yes, I said it, Jesus backs down. What does that teach us about God’s giving nature? About who Jesus is? About who we are called to be? That is the stuff that is dancing with me tonight as the message edges get sanded a bit…

Starting to dig into the scripture

It is almost unbelievable to me (notice I said almost) that I’ll be reading scripture and see an immediate link to something going on in my life. I was reading the passage I’ll be using this weekend (Mark 7:24-30) when I began thinking about the applications related to exclusion and inclusion that happened this past weekend with the homeless gentleman at Saint James. (Read my blog “The disconnect between faith and life“) Initially in this passage from Mark, was Jesus saying that there are insiders that rank above the other outsiders? Sure seemed like it when I was reading it. After he talked about the irrelevance of the purity codes, he starts drawing lines elsewhere. Maybe he was just ticked off that someone found him when he was “hiding out” so nobody would find him. Maybe he just had the wrong take on the situation. Maybe he didn’t know that when it came to arguments, the strong love of this woman for her child would trump any logic he could lay out. In the end, Jesus is forced to admit he was wrong! WOW! Jesus was wrong.

This still doesn’t make clear to me exactly how this passage will its way into the message message for the Saint James community this weekend. But if it already has one tie-in, where else may it call us to stretch and re-think our understanding of ourselves and our faith?

The disconnect between faith and life

It is always fascinating to hear reports about a weekend when I have wondered away for vacation or some other event. Almost always, it is a reminder about how things go on with or without me. Things happen and amazingly, everybody copes one way or another. However, recently the reports leave me to wonder about where faith and life connect.

This past weekend while I was camping, Saint James was visited by a homeless gentleman. It is really not all that rare an occurance really but for some reason this time it became a point of contention for a couple of folks who decided to call the police and have him removed. Mind you, I don’t know every detail so me reactions are more raw responses than reports of every aspect of this incident. One thing that interests me is that Erika was preaching that day about not judging one another and the negative effects of so doing (it is worth listening to that message which is available here in the blog section under messages). Seems kind of ironic. Setting that aside for a moment, I realize that in “our world” people who are homeless are perceived as dangerous or at least unpredictable; I am told third hand that the call to the police was related to safety concerns for our children who were playing outside. I do not know whether or not that is true; I know that Erika has suggested a different kind of response for the future, a more loving one.

There was also something amazing that came of the encounter as well, the kind of thing that makes me get chills up my spine. I am told that two of our band members, after convincing the police no one would be pressing charges, sliced some of the leftover communion bread and made a sandwich for this man and apologized to him for our poor treatment of him. Communion bread became real food for a hungry man. Reconciliation became the possibility out of ostracism and exclusion. I am thinking more this week about my response to people different than I am and ways that we are invited to model Jesus at Saint James. And I am thankful to Tom and Everett for being models for me…

2007 September 2- Rules vs. Relationships

This is a MUST HEAR message by Erika about how so often we let ourselves make up rules that separate rather than unite, that elevate ourselves at the cost of someone else. Jesus loves us all- that is the bottom line. But rather than go on and on about the message, just listen to it and post a comment if you like…

A weekend seems a long time…

My last post was in a whole other month and we’re four days into the new month! Seems a while since I’ve written although I thought about writing all weekend long in the midst of camping. However, the low-tech nature of camping (by necessity for me- I need to leave technology behind periodically for my own sanity) meant that there was no writing, only thinking and praying. Camping was also a bit different this time because we intentionally camped with other people we knew- Linda’s sister and family. There was plenty of time to hang out and do different things but there were also added distractions and fun to be shared. It was, most of all, relaxing which I felt was vital for my sanity. It was a beautiful weekend and the sleeping weather was great. I was able to just let go of a few things that usually hang over my head when I head out. My thoughts are still a bit jumbled and while I set out to write important things (at least in my own mind), it seems they are escaping me even now.

I should be able to get the recording of worship up on the site later today when I get to the office and can edit it… be on the lookout for it… and it is good to be back.